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		Read my wall. Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 11:26 by dwjb	05/07/2008 11:40 By Dazzleuk	120	15
		I love this guy. Go to my wall and read the messages this goon has been leaving. 'Stalking him online', haha, don't make me laugh, please.

		Black guys Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 11:06 by Yung_O	05/07/2008 11:38 By colinboy	51	4
		I know everyone likes to say race doesnt matter. But to those men I have dated minus one I have been some sort of fetish. And i know full well alot of the time I get fobbed off for being black. So whats the deal with race?

		ok i fucked up yesterday Posted into What happened to me today at 05/07/2008 10:56 by darkguitarguy	05/07/2008 11:38 By darkguitarguy	157	12
		i met this guy yesterday and i just couldnt stop talk, it just kept comming, crap after crap!!! I wanted to stop but i couldnt...why is it when i get nervous i talk without thinking and never fucking stop! now i swear he things im a retard, and im fucking crazy,(ok granted the last one is true)But its just horrible you know, its like i lost control. i dont know why i got nervous or why i talk when i do, all i know is ie never felt so embarresd( sp) in my life. Does anyone know anyways to help with nerves??? Im always nervous and its really getting to much..

		Gorden Brown is the best Primeminister we have ever had! Posted into Current Affairs at 01/07/2008 20:09 by grue21	05/07/2008 11:36 By munky-nutz	710	116
		I obviously dont agree with the above statement, i mean no one could ever top Maggy thatcher! (could they???) what are your views of the premmier's efforts thus far?

		ANY1 WANA CHAT ON MSN Posted into Wants to hook up at 05/07/2008 11:35 by whitexx	05/07/2008 11:35 By Unknown	2	0
		any1 wana chat on msn send me ur addys!!

		people on this site Posted into Current Affairs at 05/07/2008 00:18 by DN11	05/07/2008 11:25 By older564younger	84	8
		lately i found a message on my profile which i removed from a prick who i think is not stable in the head, ...calling me names because i wrote a blog to try to get the chat line back on at the time because it was a good idea and all i got was utter shite off him within my indox/ the blogg and my profile wall. i told him where 2 go but really people need to start thinking what they are saying to others because this guy is clearly abit crazy question is im starting 2 wonder what is going on in peoples heads these days for a cheap thrill? its worrying

		i just want some lovin Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 00:47 by robfit	05/07/2008 11:21 By older564younger	15	2
		yeah, so it's been a while since my last...endeavor. now im just plain bored and want someone to share my time with. y'know, just someone to hug when your watching tv or call up, or go for a walk or a drive with. i want all that getting to know you bit, and the first kiss, and the texts... n sex. but it just aint coming to me. guess im gonna have to get off my ass and find someone. there is this one guy i like but he doesn't know i like him. i've let myself go a bit recently; got a bit of podge on the bosh so i wanna get rid of that before i make any moves. hmmm. lonely and sad today :( someone talk to me..

		watch out, scammers are present on ladslads now! Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 11:13 by munky-nutz	05/07/2008 11:21 By gaykiwiguy	46	3
		Just had a scam message from "colle25", u know the sort, my dad has died, he had 6.5 million in a bank account and can you help me transfer it & I'll give you a percentage... Don't fall for this crap. Gonna report him to the site owner of lads lads!

		Who else is lying in bed and can't be arsed getting up Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 10:50 by chromite	05/07/2008 11:19 By RAWRyan	86	9
		Hmmm? Perhaps you're even having a sly fiddle with your downstairs bits.

		when am i gonna find the special one? Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 01:59 by lolatdan	05/07/2008 11:19 By older564younger	75	9
		seriously when am i ever going to get the first love? when will that special person come along? why does it seem that everyone else has someone but i dnt. why are all people i go for a are cunts? i give up looking, that special one can find me. fuck it.

		Do overly camp role models help the gay cause? Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 11:08 by semiprecious	05/07/2008 11:15 By conz	31	3
		Okay, so when I was growing up and starting to consider my sexuality the only gay TV personalities were Boy George and Julian Clary. To be honest, JC always made me very unconfortable with his overt campness, but for a while I thought that to be a proper gay you had to act like that. I see a great number of gay lads who seem to try to fit with the stereotype... nasal voice, floppy wrists, too much foundation etc etc and I wonder if it would be healthier to have role models who have been able to be themselves, rather than some grotesque actobased on a perception of what gayness should be? I say live and let live, but wonder if anyone had had a similar thought. BTW... I also think Julian Clary was a hero for breaking tnto mainstream media... but at the same time he has created an expectation in the community at large of what a gay should be.

		I NEED ENCOURAGEMENT...I GAVE UP SMOKING YESTERDAY.. Posted into General Scene at 29/06/2008 20:23 by joblow	05/07/2008 11:14 By conz	154	25
		HI GUYS WELL AS THE TITLE SAYS I AM TRYING TO GIVE UP SMOKING!! THIS WILL BE MY 5TH ATTEMPT.. PLEASE SEND ME YOUR KIND WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT :) I REALLY NEED TO DO THIS..NEGATIVE COMMENTS NOT WELCOME! THANKS TO YOU GUYS IN ADVANCE! CHEERS JOE

		Happy Poofs Day. Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 09:49 by RAWRyan	05/07/2008 11:13 By RAWRyan	36	4
		HAPPY LONDON PRIDE DAY!!! HOPE EVERYONE THAT IS GOING HAS A SUPER GAY DAY. XX

		More about pride Posted into Current Affairs at 05/07/2008 03:44 by Jorum	05/07/2008 11:06 By irishdave	8	1
		What is it that has changed? Why don’t guys want places where just gay guys can go anymore, somewhere you can feel safe; meet people that like guys. Not full of st8’s, bi’s and fag hags. Loving a guy is different from the convention family model, that’s why people have fort so hard so that you have the freedom & acceptance you have now Pride is about showing people that we are normal guys and girls that are proud to say we are gay and that we can party. Should we stop the Nottinghill carnival because it celebrates black culture NO. We all need to integrate into our rich, colourful and vibrant culture that is Britain but I think that from time to time we can all put on a bit of a show. Why it is that most of blogs about can’t get a boy friend! I am bored! Well go to pride, vote with your feet you mite just have a good time

		Just moved to Headingly! [In Leeds] Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 11:06 by emodick	05/07/2008 11:06 By Unknown	18	0
		If anyone fancies a drink or anything near by let me know? =]

		Anyone else not a fan of the pride march? Posted into Current Affairs at 05/07/2008 02:09 by purplesam	05/07/2008 10:59 By semiprecious	418	64
		Anyone else here not really a fan of the pride march? I mean the going out after is a laugh because it's busy and a great atmosphere, but parading down the street celebrating the fact you're gay.? I mean, aren't we constantly striving to be accepted as normal? With civil ceremonies and adoption rights? Doesn't a yearly pride parade contradict what we are seeking in acceptance. We don't have a straight pride parade? Maybe I'm going too deep, and it's a reason for a giant piss-up, but I feel it's a contradictory celebration with a huge invitation for Nazi haters. Anyway, views?

		Cilla would be ashamed!! Posted into General Scene at 05/07/2008 09:03 by scottbag	05/07/2008 10:59 By Yung_O	51	7
		As time has gone on I think people have forgotten that there is an order of things in the world. Take for example the wonderful world of dating... Now, usually in the dating process up to date number 3 you were still able to "look around" as technically you aren't seeing this person. your only just getting to know them... You then sort of filter out whether or not ou can see it going anywhere and by then its the 3rd date so you can test the sex and its all good... Has anyone noticed these days that this process has been thrown out the window? Noticed that, its usually sex on the first date, that people presume that simply because you've been on 1 dates that you are committed to that person and that you are destined to carry on dating and being together? Phoeey!!! When you ask someone out after a few dates you declare to the world that this is the person you are now seeing and that your are faithful to them. Not on the first date...it could go wrong? they could be a nutter? I'm not saying that either myself or others have people queing up, or indeed that you should sleep around. But instead, please drop the illusion that someone should be totally faithful to someone after the 1st date. It just isn't done and only opens people up to disappointment. Seriously though, am I the only person that remembers the old ways of dating? I know I'm old fashioned but surely to build a relationship with someone you start with firm foundations. Thats what the dating process is for surely? Or maybe this process is for "straight" couples. Because us Gays don't really build families etc we don't need to have such a firm foundation for relationships? Am I Wrong? Sorry people, sounds like a rant but it isn't I assure you... just me, standing ear, rather queer, with a beer!

		Manchester Today Posted into What I'm planning to happen at 05/07/2008 10:59 by Bish	05/07/2008 10:59 By Unknown	6	0
		Me and wifey Cannot wait even though it's raining that will not dampen our spirits. Canal street here we come, probally end up in Essentials See you there

		it's saturday night and i aint got nobody! wats the use of makin a bed?! Posted into General Music at 05/07/2008 10:22 by jayme19	05/07/2008 10:56 By stevewestcliff	55	8
		proper love this song, its exactly how i feel. sex anyone?

		gay and sex Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 10:48 by trainersrfun	05/07/2008 10:55 By pezza91	19	2
		although i av a major high sex drive it dunt bother me if i dunt get any , so y do the majority of gay men think all there is 2 gay life is sex sex sex there is other things in life and a brain as a gay man wot do u others think ?

		Omfg im so scared! Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 03:14 by Hot_Toddy	05/07/2008 10:55 By older564younger	342	56
		Shit the fuckin bed!! Im in my house n i can hear sum really weird noises!! U wanna bloody hear them its awful!! I dnt know wat it is!! I live in the middle of knowhere n dnt have neighbours! Omggg im actually startin to panic!

		PRIDE LONDON TODAY Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 10:25 by techsbex	05/07/2008 10:51 By trainersrfun	26	1
		IS any one going msn me back !!!

		gay bars in skegness ??? Posted into Random Thoughts at 28/06/2008 05:59 by trainersrfun	05/07/2008 10:49 By trainersrfun	98	8
		hiya all is there n e 1 that can help me out i goin skegness for a long weekend does n e one know if there is any gay bars in skegness?? really will need a gay bar to go y i there

		Why are gay men so fucking bitchy? Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 00:24 by jt79	05/07/2008 10:48 By semiprecious	169	24
		Tell me why is it when someone puts a blog up on this site that sooner or later someone either hits them with a bitchy comment or slags them off in one way or another? I mean come on people is it not bad enough we are hated,feared Hell even loathed in this world by half of the world that we as a sub culture have to in-fight. Come put your false nails away and out them handbags down and for the love of God stop all this evil nasty back bitting!

		To be or not to be? Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 09:06 by scottbag	05/07/2008 10:39 By mercman	37	6
		Ask yourself this, can you be too much of one thing and not of another? Can you be too welcoming and nice, that you become part of the furniture? Is it possible to become to reliable and too helpful and friendly that you end up being the doormat? Don't get me wrong, you can defend yourself and hold your own in an argument, but when it comes to things that matter, issues of the heard or emergencies, then are you simply expected to be there and do as you always have? For the most of us we go through our daily lives trying to be as helpful as we can. Lend a hand here, Be shoulder to cry on there, but can you take this too far? Can you be too nice? It does happen, I've seen it. Among the Straight world guys that are everything a girl looks for are seen as sweet, and that's it. The girl then wonders off the the total arsehole regardless of his level of charm. In the Gay world this happens too. Its a sad fact of life that the good guys finish last. But hey, at least we can sleep at night. or can we?

		does this vedio make any1 else proppa larf! Posted into Random Thoughts at 05/07/2008 03:06 by jenks	05/07/2008 10:37 By reason	16	2
		ive alway liked this song,...but this vedio is jokes! the women , her facail epressions the light up boobies and willy lol tish jokes, she also looks like how id imagion modanna in 5-9 years loool

		MY JOB INTERVIEW AT BUTLINS IN BOGNOR REGIS TODAY AT 4PM Posted into General Stuff at 05/07/2008 09:19 by sexyhotfuck	05/07/2008 09:55 By AJKNIGHT	69	7
		hey you guys got a interview for a job at butlins today for either retail,restraunt,housekeeping or cinema. anyone else on here going there today for the same thing? say hi if you see me there. martin

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